How often?

I was thinking about sex, which lets face it is not a new past time for me. I was wondering how often people really have sex. Married couples think that single people have tons of sex but I have known plenty of single people that didn’t have any for months or even years! It’s a running joke that all guys think about is sex and they would hump anything that moves but how often do we really have sex and how often do we want it?
There are lots of different factors to take into consideration. Do you have a partner? Do they want sex as often? Does you job drain your energy? Do you have kids that run you ragged?
Whatever the factors that make up your hectic life, are you satisfied with the frequency of your sex life? We will get into quality at another time. Leave a comment and let’s see how often do you usually have sex and is it often enough?
I always want sex but life gets in the way. I am very satisfied with the frequency of my sex life. As a married woman with a two year old having sex 4-5 times a week (usually) is great! Sure who wouldn’t want more but I am not going to complain!


I saw Mommy kissing ….

Well it’s that time of year again…. Time to reenact your Santa fantasies! We all have heard the song ” I saw Mommy kissing Santa Claus”. Well what if you really want to? Or maybe you want to be Santa’s helper?
You can dress up and help Santa put the presents under the tree. Make sure to bend over nice and slow each time! If you are lucky Santa will give you your gift early for all your hard work. He may drop those red pants of his and reward you right there on the floor next to the glittering Christmas tree. Making you scream his name!
Have you been a naughty little girl? You still want presents? Well Santa can give you presents but not until you bend over his knee and he spanks you. He will turn your naughty little arse the same shade of red as his outfit. You better not cry or pout.
Whatever your version of a Santa fantasy make sure you are dressed properly and ready for him to come down the chimney!


The Intruder

Keeping in mind that we are discussing fantasies and not real incidents. These fantasies are completely consensual between the two people involved.

Some women, myself included, fantasize about being alone at home and a stranger sneaks in while asleep and does all kinds of things to her. She’s sleeping in her bed in something sexy or maybe it’s an old favorite tee shirt. She wakes up and realizes she can’t move. Maybe she can’t see. She feels a hand cover her mouth firmly as she’s about to scream. A rough voice whispers harshly in her ear that if she’s a good girl and does everything he says he will let her go unhurt. He warns her not to scream or he will hurt her. She will nod her head and start to whimper but doesn’t yell or he may just gag her and not have to worry about it. He tells her he’s been watching her for a long time. She thinks she’s such a good girl. Too good for most others but he knows her dirty secrets. He knows where she keeps her naughty toys and how she longs for the touch of a man. She begs him to leave her alone and stop. He just sneers as he rips her clothes off and runs his hands over her body. She cannot escape him but she tries to fight him off the best she can with her arms and legs tied to the bed. He laughs at her. He knows she really wants this deep down and he will give it to her in time. He’s going to take his time teasing and tasting and taking her in all the ways he has thought about each time he saw her.
The stranger spends a long time licking and nibbling her ears, neck, breasts and thighs. He enjoys watching her try to get away and protesting , begging him to stop. He also sees that her body is enjoying it as she gets noticeably wetter and wetter. He takes one breast in his hand and kneads it while he suckles at the other. She writhes half in pleasure and half trying to get away. All the while she’s trying to get her arms or legs loose so she can get away. She can’t. What she can’t see are cuffs and bondage rope holding her exactly as he wanted.
She tries to keep her legs as close together as possible as he releases his grip on her breasts. He tells her he is going to taste her so she better just relax but she refuses and begs him to stop. He laughs and yanks her legs apart with his own much more powerful legs. He firmly grabs her thighs to keep them apart and nestles between her legs. He tastes her and she is as sweet and as wet as he knew she would be. She bucks against him but it is futile. Her body is betraying her as he hits her sweet spot over and over again.
Once he has had his fun he thrusts himself inside her in one swift brutal move. She moans despite herself as he thrusts violently into her. She tries to tell him she’s a good girl and to stop hurting her but it doesn’t hurt. It feels so good. She can’t believe her body is reacting this way.
All of a sudden he stops and gets off the bed. She hears some rustling and the door shuts. She’s afraid to move for several minutes. When she finally does try to move, she realizes she can move. He left the cuffs and ropes on her but he untied them from the bed. She sits up and removes the blindfold. She is alone again.

Is this a fantasy you share? Want to reenact it at your house? You can find all the toys needed at our store including blindfolds, rope and cuffs.


Time for your sponge bath

Another popular fantasy is that of the innocent looking candy striper or young nurse. She comes into your room with a tub of warm water and a sponge to give you a sponge bath. You try to think of it as purely clinical and stay calm. How can you with her so close? She’s beautiful and is caressing your body with that delicate warm wet sponge. She leans in close to get your shoulders and her top buttons are open allowing you to see and feel her perky young breasts rubbing against your chest. She seems to be so serious about her job but if so why are so many buttons undone and why does she seem to linger pressed up against you? Despite your best efforts, you start to get excited! She notices but doesn’t say a thing. So professional! Until she reaches down, pulls the blankets aside and starts to wash your quickly hardening cock. All of a sudden she says “oh my! This sponge just isn’t getting you clean enough”. She drops the sponge and slowly licks your cock. Not such an innocent nurse. Naughty naughty …. If this is your type of fantasy , we have the perfect naughty nurse costumes at our store. Come get one for your naughty nurse.


The naughty maid

Another popular sex fantasy is that of the French maid. Usually the maid is blackmailed or coerced or seduced by her boss into sex acts. The maid can be male or female but is usually female so I will use she for the maid and he for the boss.
Maybe the boss comes home and finds the maid napping or watching porn instead of cleaning. The boss is mad and fires the maid. She begs him not to fire her and offers him anything for her to keep her job. He forces her into a special maid outfit or even just her sexy lingerie or naked. He can make her clean while naked and perform sex acts. The boss forces her to wear a butt plug while scrubbing the floor on her hands and knees. While she scrubs he walks around watching her and casually reaching out to caress or spank her, whatever whims he might have.
Maybe the naughty maid has been tempting the boss for awhile with looks and a provocative maid outfit. Bending over in front of him and standing a little close. The boss can’t resist any longer so he comes home early to finally take her. Maybe she goes along with it or maybe she’s a tease and he has to take her and teach her it’s not nice to tease.
There are many variations on this fantasy which makes it such a popular one. At our store you can find several versions of maid outfits and all the toys you might want to use on your naughty horny maid.
Is this your fantasy? Are you the maid or the boss? Share with us.



We all, at some point, have sexual fantasies. Some of us, the lucky group are with someone or have been where we are able to fulfill those fantasies. Fantasies can include costumes, props, different words or language (erotic or degrading, etc) , acting as a particular type of person (cop, maid etc). So what are your top fantasies? Have you been able to fulfill them? Our store has costumes and toys to help complete your fantasies but let’s hear them!
One popular fantasy is the naughty school girl who gets in big trouble with her teacher or professor. She goes to see him or her after class and he locks the door and makes her beg for a good grade. Then the teacher might bend her over the desk and lift her little skirt and spank her with a ruler. Maybe the naughty little school girl has to crawl under the desk and service the teacher orally or she gets taken from behind pressed up against the chalkboard or pushed down on top of the desk with papers. Whatever version works best for you! Is this one of yours? Are you the school girl or the teacher?

More popular fantasies coming up….

More on the development of sex toys…..

As discussed earlier, sex toys have been around for thousands of years. The term dildo was derived from Italian diletto which means pleasure. Sex toys continued to gain popularity during the Italian Renaissance, and really who can blame them?
In the mid 18th century Victorian time period, dildos were first made of rubber. This was a HUGE improvement for sex toys. As you can probably imagine, rubber dildos were more comfortable to use.  Also, they could be shaped to look like a penis!
Another major advancement during this time was the invention of the vibrator! Finally! However, it was used as a medical tool to heal women with “hysteria”. The steam powered vibrators were thought to relief hysteria, a believed psychological disorder, by bringing a woman to orgasm. What a treatment!
More to come soon….in the meantime, while we don’t have steam powered vibrators we have tons of great powerful vibrators and other great toys. Check us out!